Celebration of life songs

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    For a celebration of life, families choose songs that lift the room: "Here Comes the Sun" (The Beatles), "Three Little Birds" (Bob Marley & the Wailers), "I Hope You Dance" (Lee Ann Womack) and "Forever Young" (Rod Stewart) are among the most popular, with "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" for someone with a sense of humour.

    Uplifting and hopeful

    SongArtistYearWhy it fits
    Here Comes the SunThe Beatles1969Light after a dark time; easy for everyone to enjoy.
    Three Little BirdsBob Marley & the Wailers1977"Don't worry" in song form.
    I Hope You DanceLee Ann Womack2000Advice to live fully, as they did.
    Forever YoungRod Stewart1988A blessing for the people left behind.
    Over the Rainbow / What a Wonderful WorldIsrael Kamakawiwo'ole1993Gentle and hopeful; works for any age.
    What a Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong1967Gratitude for life's small joys.
    You've Got a FriendCarole King1971For someone who was always there for their friends.
    Lean on MeBill Withers1972About community and support; people often sing along.
    Stand by MeBen E. King1961Loyalty and love, and a tune everyone knows.

    Celebrating a big personality

    SongArtistYearWhy it fits
    Always Look on the Bright Side of LifeMonty Python1979A UK favorite for someone who would want people laughing.
    Don't Stop Believin'Journey1981A singalong for someone who never gave up.
    Sweet CarolineNeil Diamond1969Gets the whole room singing; great for the gathering after.
    CelebrationKool & the Gang1980Literally a celebration; best at the party afterwards.
    My WayFrank Sinatra1969For someone who lived life on their own terms.
    Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)Green Day1997Bittersweet and grateful; popular for younger people too.

    Reflective, but warm

    SongArtistYearWhy it fits
    In My LifeThe Beatles1965Remembering people and places with love.
    Let It BeThe Beatles1970Acceptance and comfort.
    Fix YouColdplay2005Builds from quiet to hopeful; good for a slideshow.
    See You AgainWiz Khalifa ft. Charlie Puth2015A modern tribute about friendship and meeting again.
    UnforgettableNat King Cole1951Timeless and warm.
    The Parting GlassTraditional (Irish/Scottish)Trad.A traditional toast of farewell, often sung at Irish wakes.
    SmileNat King Cole1954Encouragement to smile through it; a lovely closing song.

    How to choose

    A celebration of life is usually less formal than a funeral, so the music can be too. Many families build a playlist for the gathering and save one or two meaningful songs for a quiet moment.

    Ask friends and family for one song each that reminds them of the person; it makes a playlist that sounds like their life.

    A song in their own words

    Some families create an original tribute song from their memories, with their's name in it, to play at the service. You read the lyrics and hear a preview before deciding.

    Create a tribute song

    Questions

    What songs are good for a celebration of life?

    Uplifting songs like "Here Comes the Sun", "Three Little Birds", "I Hope You Dance" and "Forever Young", plus the person's own favorites.

    Is it OK to play happy songs at a memorial?

    Yes. A celebration of life is meant to remember the joy in someone's life, and upbeat songs are common, especially at the gathering afterwards.

    Sources

    Song titles, artists and years are taken from the artists' published discographies and the songs' Wikipedia pages. Hymn years are when the text or tune was first published. Spotted a mistake? Email hello@bestsonggift.com and we'll fix it.